If there is one thing I have learned since being diagnosed with cancer, it is that every day is precious.  And it really does no good, emotionally or physically, to hold on to grudges and bitterness.  Life is too short to withhold forgiveness.  My friend, Bob Moyers, is the founder of National Forgiveness Day...always the last Saturday in October.  And for the past 8 years, he has shared his message of Unconditional Love/Be Healthy Plan/National Forgiveness Day.  Check his website for more info...and maybe he can help unburden those who just can't let go of a transgression: