When is a simple child's birthday party really not the simple affair it should be? When THIS mom gets involved! Here is the actual letter she sent out for all birthday party participants to adhere to...no exceptions...not even for relatives! She provides complete instructions and do and do not ideas for this child's presents! I believe its good to be prepared, but don't you think this is a bit excessive? She even knows how many books he has, vs. how many he needs and the age for additional books depending on the amount of shelf space in his room. Poor kid! What ever happened to to fun?